You know how it’s said that you never stop learning? Well, after 30 plus years of baking I discovered today that Kahlua can be used in place of vanilla šŸ˜€ … Love how you have to get creative when you reach that “no going back” point in baking and notice you’re missing a key ingredient….

It’s funny how people tend to drop in your lapĀ  just when you need them to sometimes. I had an appointment today with a new hairdresser and within 5 minutes it became clear that I was meant to be sittign exactly in his chair and hearing what he had to say.

I’ve been searching for what to do professionally and getting a bit frustrated and a sense of “what am I going to do” has been creeping into my head more often.

After 10 minutes with this man and what was, on the surface, idle chit chat it took a turn for deeper conversation as we recognized in each other a kindred sharing of base beliefs. Beliefs in a universal law of energy and the simple truth that what you believe to be possible IS possible. TheĀ flip side…what you believe to be NOT possible, will neverĀ come to fruition.

I was talking with Sweetie the other day about this very thing and how I believe that if you don’t honestly think that you can achieve something, then you never will. For the basic fact that whether consciously or subconsciously, you will make your belief a reality. If you don’t believe something can be achieved then you will never give the challenge the energy or effort needed to achieve it. After all, why try if you know, deep down that there is no possibility of success? This is about so much more than a conscious thought. It is the universal rule that we create that which we believe we can haveĀ …and that which we believe we deserve.

There’s a big difference betweenĀ talking the talk and walking the walk.

Not only did I walk away with a gorgeous new colour of hair but a reaffirming of the truth that I can achieve what I know I deserve and what I KNOW I can do…

as always, Lola

Welcome to lolabits šŸ˜‰ ….Ā bite-sized morsels of fun, silly and sometimes serious tidbits of insight from my life and journey! Join me as we bumble alongĀ on the adventures that await… bring an open mind and a willing spirit for expanding what you thought you knew. Enjoy the ride as you learn toĀ embrace what you suspected about yourself all along but were too uncertain to admit or explore!

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